Mom Vs Maid

There's this video that's been circulating over social medias about how maids know more about the kids than their own moms.I could only bring myself to watch halfway through the interview.It breaks my heart into tiny pieces!

Well,mostly because it resonates well with me!I have two kids and a helper at home to take care of them while i'm slaving away to the vicious,non forgiving corporate world.

Despite the obvious cons that the kids spend more time with the helper during the day,having a helper at home bring more pros.First,you don't have to worry about house chores and you actually have more time to spend with the kids after work.It's not about how long you spend time with the kids but how well you spend the time with them.

I'm probably in denial but i think i know my kids as much as my helper does.it does break my heart that sometimes my boy sleeps better when she puts him to sleep but my guts tell me,he fusses because he wants my attention.

This is probably the working mom guilt doing all the talking but if i can,i'd quit my job and raise them on my own but that is not the ideal situation.

Keep counting

In the moment of weakness shrouded by frustration and anger,counting your blessings just makes everything disappears.It reminds you how lucky you are to be bestowed with such blessings.So lucky,that possibly half of it you don't even deserved to begin with.

I keep telling myself it's not possible to have everything.The grass is NOT greener on the other side but its greener where you water it.

Work is truly major pain in the tush but let's just keep hoping for something good to turn out or this #IDGAF phase i'm in shall turn to #FTS phase!